|In Ireland on the family's homeland|
"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
|I have lived in over 10 towns in 10 years.|
I used savings, vacations and weekends to explore unique, beautiful, and exotic lands. These adventures included a road trip around Newfoundland with my best girl friends. I explored my family's roots by driving through Ireland with my parents and sister. Travel took me to hiking, kayaking, and rafting in New Zealand with my best friend.
|Exploring Arches on a Xcountry drive|
I traveled to islands Prince Edward Island and Grand Manan with my sister, New York City/Boston with my parents, and even went horseback riding in Baja California with my college roommates. Cross-country moves have taken me on a cross country drive three times and there is still so much I want to explore in this continent and beyond. I love this country, and I find enjoyment in travel. I've used this desire to see all I can to overcome my fears of the unknown. It has made me a stronger and more well rounded person.
Work and Play
"Have regular hours for work and play; make each day both useful and pleasant, and prove that you understand the worth of time by employing it well. Then youth will be delightful, old age will bring few regrets, and life will become a beautiful success. "
- Louisa May Alcott
|Me and my students|
I then committed much of my twenties to marine science as a student and researcher. I fought seasickness, crabby fishermen, and freezing spray as a marine fisheries observer in New England. I buzzed around Mission Bay, San Diego collecting specimens and data. I won an award from the university for my "Outstanding Undergraduate Research" on heavy metal toxins in Mission Bay.
|White water rafting with Leanne in New Zealand|
I spent much of my play time exploring the outdoors, developing my writing skills, and practicing my musical talents.
I have hiked over mountains, canoed across lakes, kayaked around islands, and rock climbed up cliffs.
|The cast of my play|
I most recently added to my love of play and teamwork by joining organized coed sports teams. It was scary at first, but I've developed a love for indoor soccer and indoor volleyball.
In my spare time, I learned how to rock climb, cross country ski, scuba dive, kayak, play the ukulele, and backpack. I performed scientific research, ran a marathon, published articles, wrote a play and directed it, got a bachelors and masters degree, and managed to get out of all of it without debt. I'm proud of my accomplishments. I believe my ability to focus on a goal, push myself to surpass it, and the support of those around me has allowed me to succeed.
“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.”
― William Shakespeare
― William Shakespeare
I would not be where I am today without the wonderful people who supported me along the way. I'm who I am today because of the wonderful support of my parents.
My parents showed me by example that it's important to follow your passions, treat everyone with respect, and be internationally minded. They also showed me that teaching others and sharing a love of learning is the most important thing you can do with your life.
My sister showed me unconditional love, and although she is my younger sibling, I look up to her because of her courage, her ability to communicate with feeling, and her multiple intelligences. She is my role model.
I am blessed by aunts, uncles, cousins, and a grandma that has supported me and cheered me on through the adventures of my twenties and I know they will continue to support me through the rest of my life.
In my twenties, I found "the one"
The most challenging lesson I've had in the past ten years has been on the subject of love and partnership. I learned and grew during an eight year relationship that understandably ended when we realized we were together for the wrong reasons. I am so grateful that I had that relationship and I think it has made me a stronger, more open-minded, well-rounded person.
Coming out of that relationship, I now have the knowledge to recognize and foster a committed, healthy, romantic relationship. I'm so grateful to have found a person that shares the same core beliefs, interests, and life goals. I can't wait to share my next decade with him and go on many adventures together. My experiences have given me the confidence to know we are going to have wonderful life together.
I have been blessed with the most amazing friends. The love I've received from those around me constantly astounds me and I only hope that I can send that much love back into the world. A heartfelt and special thank you goes to the following dearest of friends who I met in my 20s. These people have shown me what kindness, love, and friendship truly is...
- My three USD roommates who stood by me for my early twenties as we struggled to find our identity in those college years.
- My amazing gals in Portland, Maine who took me in and showed me how to be a single gal in my twenties.
- The kindred spirits that I worked alongside that summer at the Whale Camp. It is amazing how fast a group of people can bond for life.
- The amazing staff at the Jackson Bottom Wetlands Preserve who adopted me as their Americorps volunteer and gave me love and a sense of place.
Whale Camp Friends
- The LACOSS crew who showed me how to take advantage of a weekend with adventures rock climbing in J-tree, skiing on the mountain, or partying in LA.
- The parents of my ex boyfriend who adopted me as their daughter and continue to show me kindness and friendship. I am forever indebted to you.
- The amazing men and women I met in graduate school and survived the adventure together. It's so wonderful to have you to discuss the stresses of grad school and later the stress and excitement of being a new teacher. We share a bond forever.
- My caring student-teacher mentor who took me into her home when I had nowhere to go. She made me a daughter and gave me unconditional support and love. I am blessed by her kindness.
Amazing middle school coworkers
- The strong and talented coworkers at the middle school. As a new teacher, they welcomed me, mentored me, and made me feel like I could do anything. I know my confidence and risk-taking in teaching is all thanks to them. I am grateful everyday for these people.
As I finish my twenties, here's my last piece of advice for those who are crossing the threshold into theirs.
1. Take healthy risks - in careers, adventures, travel, and skills. It's scary, but the more and more you try it, the stronger and more interesting you'll become.
|Love your 20s!|
3. Make wonderful friends and develop strong relationships. Be caring, respectful, and be on time to your commitments with them.
4. Be open minded. Don't look down on others because of their choices. We are all trying are hardest with what we got.
5. Respect your body. Respect your feelings. Leave behind those who don't.
6. Make goals and hold yourself to them.
8. Document your experiences. You'll want to look back at those photos and diary entries.
9. Love. It's the meaning of life.
10. Laugh. You'll live longer.
See you in my thirties...